Soften the butter: Let the butter sit at room temperature until it’s pliable but not greasy.
This helps it mix smoothly without splitting.
Mix the wet flavorings: In a bowl, stir together the Dijon, lemon juice and zest, Worcestershire, and hot sauce. This evenly disperses the liquids before they hit the butter.
Add the aromatics and spices: Stir in the minced garlic, red pepper flakes, smoked paprika, black pepper, and salt. If using honey or cayenne, add them now.
Combine with butter: Add the softened butter and fold everything together with a spatula until fully blended and streak-free.
Finish with herbs: Fold in the parsley and chives last to keep them fresh and bright.
Taste and adjust: Add more salt, hot sauce, or lemon to suit your taste.
It should be garlicky, tangy, and slightly spicy.
Chill or shape: For immediate use, transfer to a small bowl and chill 15–20 minutes to firm slightly. For later, spoon the butter onto parchment, roll into a log, and twist the ends. Chill until solid.
Serve on hot steak: Slice a thick coin and place it on a freshly cooked steak while it rests.
Let it melt, then spoon the buttery juices over the top.